Romance of the gun

The various disasters in the Middle East keep on getting worse. About the best analysis of the whole situation that I’ve seen in some time was by Rami Khouri in Salon. The write-off sums up the case

Hamas and Hezbollah, Lebanon and Palestine, Syria and Iran, the U.S. and Israel: Unless these four pairs of actors turn away from their failed policies, the Middle East will sink further into violence and despair.

What is striking about the Middle East is that, more than anywhere else in the world, it is the place where belief in the effectiveness of violence to achieve political goals has reigned supreme, and the place where nothing of substance has changed, except for the worse, in generations. Whether it’s the gunman firing an AK-47 into the air, the suicide bomber’s macabre video clip, the Revolutionary Guard armed with Islamic fervour or the official military parading its power to deliver terror by air and armoured brigade, the romance of the gun seems to obscure the reality of murdered children and the dismal failure of all concerned to move even an inch towards any sort of solution.

The only new thing about the current crisis is that lots of Australians are directly in the line of fire. This raises the stakes dramatically for anyone who wants to endorse the actions of one side or another.

71 thoughts on “Romance of the gun

  1. “..lots of Australians are directly in the line of fire. This raises the stakes dramatically for anyone who wants to endorse the actions of one side or another.”

    Not sure what you mean by this – that now, because Australians are threatened, commentators should re-evaluate their positions? That Australian lives are more important than Lebanese or Israeli or Palestinian lives? I’m sure it wasn’t your intent to imply this, but it does read a bit like that. So what did you mean?

  2. What is striking about the Middle East is that, more than anywhere else in the world, it is the place where belief in the effectiveness of violence to achieve political goals has reigned supreme, and the place where nothing of substance has changed, except for the worse, in generations.

    I concur with Pr Q’s despairing analysis. Violence usually only solves small problems, such as minor turf disputes in organised crime. Or massive problems, such as Nazi and Nippon totalitarian militarism.

    I think that Pr Q should add that the causes of ME violence are both super-national and sub-national. Violence is chronic in the ME because this region has dysfunctional cultures and weak national polities, problems that go back hundreds of years. It is also chronic because great powers have been drawn to the region in search of strategic assets, not the least of which is oil.

    But the ME is not the only place where key players are stuck in a vicious cycle. We are also victims of our own delusions which our power and arrogance permits us to impose on others who only want a quiet life.

    Below are three world views have been more or less tossed into the Dustbin of History by the recent disturbances in the ME:

    Regime Change HAWKS: They believed belief that they could confront, defeat and re-construct an antagonistic political culture by military violence. Wrong. This belief has been refuted by the response of the Palestinians to the IDF, the Israelis to Hamas & Hezbollah and Suunis to the US military.

    Peace for Land DOVES: They believed that giving land back to weak governments controlled by terrorist militias will buy the Israelis enduring peace. Wrong. This belief was was refuted by the resurgence of Hamas violence as the IDF pulled out of Gaza and the resurgence of Hezbollah violence as the IDF pulled out of Southern Lebanon.

    Multicultural WETS: They believed that it was possible for democratic multicultural jurisdictions to coalesce into peace-loving, liberty-enjoying and West-tilting states with every one living in harmony together and celebrating diversity. But as soon as democratic rights were granted to the populus in Iraq, Lebanon and Palestine the people immediately fractured into partisan sects and elected the most militant leaders who set about settling old scores.

    Only the nationalising DRIES come out of this fiasco with any intellectual and ideological credit. The realists among them correctly predicted that the ME would continue to disappoint acording to its traditions. And it would become worse not better if we intervened. The conservative principle of respecting ones own borders and showing like respect for other peoples borders has been vindicated.

    So instead of just indulging in another bout of hand-wringing and brow-knitting and tut-tutting about the ME perhaps we should do some soul-searching about our own ideological fantasies. And hang our heads in shame.

  3. It looks like I managed to accidentally delete a couple of comments that went to automoderation. Please repost them and I’ll respond.

  4. Perhaps outside the middle east we more readily submit to the will of others. Democracy would not work without submission. It entails a general willingness to submit to, and ultimately trust your fate to, the majority. Although I think that the rule of law is more essential to a reasonable life than democracy.

  5. It’s interesting to watch the gyrations of the Australian government as it tries to simultaneously
    a) show how great they are at leaping to the assistance of Aussies in trouble
    b) avoid the slightest suggestion that they might be criticising Israel.

  6. I was also curious about the remark: ”The only new thing about the current crisis is that lots of Australians are directly in the line of fire. This raises the stakes dramatically for anyone who wants to endorse the actions of one side or another’. Why dramatically? What difference does it make to the analysis of the situation?

    Generally you sound like you are saying that all groups should give up on the idea of violence. I agree. But is this a helpful prescription? How does this help Israel in its attempt to survive? What should Israel have done when foreign troops entered its territory, killed and kidnapped its citizens? It could not have reasonably sent flowers to Hezbollah and preached the virtues of non-violence.

    I agree with you that the romance of the gun is an abomination but I cannot see that this has been Israel’s affliction. What do you do when you have violent terrorists on your doorstep who seek to destroy you?

  7. Harry, I think the rhetoric (standard for this debate) indicates some of these problems. You start by presenting Israel’s as facing a threat to its survival, which presumably implies that almost any action is justified in response. But the actual crime committed by Hezbollah was not a threat to Israel’s survival, nor is any such threat apparent. So rather than ask the question of whether the actual response is likely to achieve anything, you sign a blank cheque.

    All your points can easily be turned around, and commonly are: facing the absolute denial of its existence as a state, occupation by foreign troops, and routine killing of its citizens, why isn’t Palestine justified in any and all actions to fight this situation, and why can’t it call on allies such as Hezbollah?

    All sides in this dispute have used this kind of reasoning all the time. Rather than try to unpick the reasoning, I’m simply pointing to the results, which have been disastrous for all concerned.

    Coming back to your first para, many people seem to think that it’s OK if the Israeli/US side kills civilians in pursuit of their goals, and some think the same about the other side(s). This view looks a lot less tenable if the civilians being killed are Australians, than if they are “people in a faraway country about which we know little”. What about Australia’s right to defend itself against such attacks? Where does this kind of reasoning end?

  8. I have been shocked by the tilt of the local media coverage. The anti-Israel feeling from the news has been amazing. I would never have guessed that putting Australian lives in danger would have made such a difference. I had assumed that because almost all the Australians directly affected are of Lebanese descent the media would just treat it as just another international crisis. I guess that when you hear that Aussie accent in a foriegn country it does not matter what the person looks like, they’re still Australian.

    From the Israeli perspective this war has been a PR disaster within Australia.

  9. For arguments sake if Israel was totally removed from the ME would the other players find peace? I doubt it, Israel handed over Gaza and then became the object of increased violence.

    The Bombay bombing is another good example that it is not about Israel it is jihad.

    Al jazeera ran a doco on the training of Hamas, their jihad is “Until the liberation of Palestine, and until the message ‘There is no God but Allah, and Muhammad is His Messenger’ reaches the entire world.”

    http://memri.org/bin/latestnews.cgi?ID=SD120906

  10. Harry,

    At the risk of repeating JQ’s point, allow me to paraphrase you:

    Generally you sound like you are saying that all groups should give up on the idea of violence. I agree. But is this a helpful prescription? How does this help Palestine in its attempt to survive? What should Palestine have done when foreign troops entered its territory, killed and kidnapped its citizens? It could not have reasonably sent flowers to Israel and preached the virtues of non-violence.

    Turning to the current situation, are you honestly defending Israel’s response to the capture of two soldiers?

    Does it make a difference that the IDF captured three Hezbollah soldiers in April this year?

    And so on and so on back to 1948 …

  11. Turkey is becoming increasingly secular, and the gulf states, Saudi Arabia, UAE etc are relatively peaceful. Iran developed its own secular democratic government until it was overthrown by the Americans to put their Shah back in power. Even today the Iranian clerics are unhappy with the westerisation of their youth and don’t really know how to stop it. In Pakistan the Islamic parties never do very well when they actually have elections.

    The Jihadists often get very frustrated at how uninterested in Jihad most Arabs and muslims are. When there is relative freedom and economic development like in Dubai people become uninterested in religion just as they do in the west. Its only when their is some sort of oppression that the Jihadist manage to get the upper hand.

  12. Rog,

    Suggesting that Israel’s withdrawal from Gaza should have ‘bought peace’ on that front is akin to saying that the Soviet Union should have made peace with Hitler once Germany had been rolled back behind its pre-war eastern front boundaries in 1944.

    This is an absurd proposition.

    The Palestinians have the legal and moral right to resist Israeli occupation wherever it occurs until all occupation ceases.

  13. Of course it is an absurd proposition, we are not talking about the breach of the Molotov-Ribbentrop Pact.

  14. So why exactly should the PARTIAL Israeli withdrawal from occupied territory have led to a cessation of hostilities from the still-occupied people?

  15. Harry,

    You say:

    What do you do when you have violent terrorists on your doorstep who seek to destroy you?

    And this goes to JQs point – all sense of proportionality is thrown out the window when it comes to conflict in this region.

    What sensible person with even a cursory understanding of the relative military imbalances would suggest that Israel’s existence is threatened by Palestinian militants?

    Why do people in Australia defend a plainly disproportionate response by Israel in Lebanon? Do these same people believe that when someone’s car is stolen that the aggrieved party has the right to burn down the offender’s house and kill their family?

  16. Chris C,
    Morally, you may have a good case. Realistically, it stinks. Israel has enough weapons to ensure its survival. If the Palestinians fight the way you seem to be advocating, all that will happen is further generations of pain and misery for them.
    I have long held that the foundation of Israel was an attempt by Europe (and the US) to reduce their feelings of guilt about the Holocaust and pogroms by giving away someone else’s land. I believe in strong property rights and, as such, the deprivation of those rights without due process must be wrong.
    Might, in this case however, has made right.
    If you want to see a full(er) discussion of this, follow the Catallaxy link above.

  17. Obviously if even a PARTIAL withdrawal is met with an ESCALATION of violence a TOTAL withdrawal would be a catastrophe.

    With Hamas running the show Palestine is not fit for self rule.

  18. Rog,

    Try to think a little harder.

    If Israel withdrew to the 1967 green line both in Gaza and the West Bank (which is effectively the internationally recognised border), then any subsequent Palestinian violence or rocket attack could be met with an Israeli response that would be recognised as a legitimate defensive measure (assuming it is proportionate).

    As long as Israel remains an occupier, and hence in violation of the numerous UN resolutions on this issue, it loses the moral ground in any response against the Palestinians.

    Now Israel probably does not care about this, but think about how quickly widespread global support for Palestinian resistance would dissipate if this happened.

    It would then truly be a battle against insurgents rather than a colonialist, apartheid enterprise as it is currently perceived.

  19. I am still waiting for global Palestinian support to dissipate after Munich.

    Hamas and Hezbollah are terrorist organisations and Israel has a right to defend itself against their attacks.

  20. And I am still waiting for Israeli apologists to disperse after Shabra, Shatila, Hebron, Ramallah, Beirut…

    By any neutral definition, Israel is also a terrorist state.

    Nice evasion of my central point though, Rog.

    Israel does not have the right to level Lebanon and claim it is self-defence.

    The hilarious thing was hearing Israel cite UN resolutions about Hezbollah as its defence for its carnage in Lebanon. I wonder why the Palestinians are not allowed to do the same.

    Anyway, this could go on, and I could continue to run rings around your flawed arguments, but JQs central point remains – whatever the historic rights or wrongs, the sooner REAL negotiations are undertaken, the sooner these conflicts will be resolved.

  21. Andrew,

    Agreed – unfortunately given the force arrayed against them, the Palestinians will never retrieve what is rightfully theirs, and will have to settle for much less.

    I just thought I would expose another canard that has been thrown around recently – that the Gaza withdrawal was a courageous concession that has been thrown back in Israel’s face.

    When any fair minded person understands that it is merely an extremely overdue and only partial restitution of a theft.

  22. Like Harry I was puzzled by John’s comment that the presence of Australians ‘dramatically’ raises the stakes. It can’t make any difference regarding the ethics of Israel’s policy. For all we know, the Australians in Beirut might all be fee-paying members of Hezbollah. In any case, the majority of Lebanese citizens are no more responsible for Hezbollah nor more capable of reining them in, than the foreign visitors.

    So I guess the point is just that the involvement of Australians influences the perceptions of other Australians, especially those inclined to accept abstract rationalisations for violence.

    This doesn’t explain why Tony Jones keeps harping on the issue of Australians at risk when he interviews people like Ehud Barak about Israel’s tactics. It just sounds parochial and silly. Of course the plight of Australians is an important story, and journalists should ask Downer what he’s doing about it. But it has no bearing on the strategic or ethical issues. Nor, for that matter, does the fact that Israel’s attacks are occurring on Lebanese soil.

    The strategic question is, can you deter future Hezbollah attacks by demonstrating that your threats of severe retalition are credible?

    The ethical question is, how many innocent people is it legitimate to kill and maim as collateral damage, especially when those people are being used, more or less deliberately, as human shields?

    I doubt there will ever be a consensus about the ethical question, but if the answer to the strategic question is no, then that should be enough reason to condemn the policy. It can’t work. Israel is stronger than its enemies, but not enough to subdue them totally. Therefore, on purely practical grounds, they have to make major compromises.

  23. The original premise, that Hamas and Hezbollah, Lebanon and Palestine, Syria and Iran, the U.S. and Israel are 4 actors is flawed.

    It assumes that all are equal, that have all equally sued for peace.

    Hamas and Hezbollah have not and with Iran they continue to call for the complete removal of Israel, that is their non negotiable position. How can such people be appeased?

    Egypt and Jordan are also “actors” although perhaps a peace treaty precludes “acting”. Conflict resolution between Israel and Egypt and Jordan was successful with peace treaties signed and relations with Turkey grow stronger.

    Where is the UN peace keeping force in Labanon? They were to ensure that Israel withdrew completely and that Lebanon was the only military force. Hezbollah had built up their forces in the presence of the UN.

  24. “So I guess the point is just that the involvement of Australians influences the perceptions of other Australians, especially those inclined to accept abstract rationalisations for violence.’

    This is exactly my point

  25. I just hope that the clamouring for a UN peacekeeping force in Lebanon leads to calls for the same thing in Palestine – the region has been through enough.

  26. Rog,
    Are you really sure the US is seeking peace in ME? Neocons such Richard Perle, formerly chairman of the Defence Policy Board in the Bush Administration, advocated for Israel to engage Syria and Iran in open conflict long time ago (see http://www.iasps.org/strat1.htm).
    Looking at Israel’s recent strategies through Washington’s geo-political game, I wouldn’t rule out that they are trying to provoke a sillier reaction (another 9/11?) to justify bombing Syria and Iran to rubble.

  27. The UN has a peacekeeping force in Lebanon called UNIFIL – been there since 1978 and are due to pull out July 31 2006. UNIFIL has certified that Israel has completely pulled out of previously occupied territory, this is disputed by the armed gangs in Lebanon who continue to attack Israel.

    I know people with families in Israel, in Haifa, they are also involved.

  28. JQ’s point is well-made.

    There is a pathological outpouring of pent up aggression being witnessed in the brutality of the bombing of Lebanon. This is no doubt the pay back for years of suicide bombings. It is also no doubt a war-crime. (That quaintly parlour-room concept.) And, all the while, Israel lost in an orgiastic spasm of cruelty, sows the seeds – as has the USA/UK/Aust – of future attacks against itself.

    Nanni’s point is also well made. And to my taste slightly more interesting.

    Israel’s response to the capture of its soldiers is identical to the USA’s response to 911. “Sweep it all up.” Go on the attack big time, while you have a causus belli, any causus belli, fresh in the media’s mind. There are over-riding strategic objectives being pursued across this region. It is, simply, a war. For regional domination. And unfortunately, Australia is one of the belligerents. Forget the neo-con stuff for a moment though. Think traditional reasons for war and you get closer to the truth.

    Hell, even Jack is getting there – after 4 years.

    “It is also chronic because great powers have been drawn to the region in search of strategic assets, not the least of which is oil.”

  29. Rog,

    Actually, Israel is still occupying the Shebaa Farms.

    UNIFIL needs to be a lot bigger if it is to achieve the aims set for it.

  30. Sorry guys, but it looks like a clash of closed minds and immovable objections. Re (one of) Chris C’s comments:
    “When any fair minded person understands that it is merely an extremely overdue and only partial restitution of a theft. ”
    Sorry, but isn’t the problem that they all believe they have a claim to all the land?
    And Chris, perhaps if you asked a few Indigenous Australians, you might consider a different perception of the value of a partial restitution. Your (sorry, I just can’t accept a Howard Government as my government, democratic solecism though it may be) Government can’t even say it was sorry about nicking the lot. Isn’t it fortunate that most Indigenous cultures aren’t into violence as a first solution to a problem. I wonder how we usurpers would feel if a small minority of Indigenous Australians got all jihad-minded and decided on Hamas or Hezbollah as appropriate role models.

  31. “With Hamas running the show Palestine is not fit for self rule.”

    putting aside the haughtiness of this statement, when, in your opinion, will palestine be fit for self rule? so if for example fatah was still in charge, well they’re terrorists too, aren’t they? for someone who is “still waiting for global Palestinian support to dissipate after Munich”, i think i know the answer to that question. so, practically speaking, you do not think the occupied territories should ever have self-rule. or perhaps i misunderstand you?

  32. The Guardian has an article dated 19/7/06 indicating that the Israeli attack on Lebanon is being done by agreement with the US Govt. Though disgraceful, this is not surprising, given the extent to which the Israeli tail now wags the American dog.

    Another Guardian article here dated 21/7/06 gives a roundup of damage to Lebanon done so far.

  33. Of course the plight of Australians is an important story, and journalists should ask Downer what he’s doing about it. But it has no bearing on the strategic or ethical issues. Nor, for that matter, does the fact that Israel’s attacks are occurring on Lebanese soil.

    so the fact that israel is bombing beirut, whose residents have not attacked it and not-insignificant numbers of whom do not support the individuals and the group who have attacked it, has no bearing on any ethical issues? the fact that beirut is not, on any rationale, part of israel, and is indeed part of a widely-recognised soveriegn nation, has no bearing on any strategic issues?

    these strike me as extraordinary claims.

  34. James F… “Tony Jones harped on about Australians at risk” partly because Ehud Barak seemed totally oblivious to the risk of non-combatents, generally. Like Downer,E.B., could not ‘get it’, that Israel would do anything other than target Hezbollah. Both singing from the same songsheet but far from the evidence coming in.

  35. Rog would you rather he be a asymmetric moralist/ apologist for Israel & the US instead?

    After what the US has got away with the renditions and torture and murder and their disregard for civilian casualties in Iraq, should it be surprising that Israel thinks it can do what it likes with token consideration for morality.

    This is certainly the last straw for me to have any regard for these apologists or the international community, as any movement away from barbarism is truly superficial.

  36. I was asked by a family member a few days ago whether, after Israel kills six million Moslems, we can all forget about the holocaust. I replied that I had forgotten about it long ago.

  37. The moral supremacy of Israel’s position is clear to all, so why are there so many chip on the shoulder anti-israel types? Could it really be true that power of perception is quite weak in some?

    For most of mankinds past these types would have been eaten by a crocodile, a lion, or killed by an enemy. Thanks to modern civilisation that lack of self-preservation nous no longer automatically means those people will be automatically removed from the gene pool.

    Nowdays they seem to feel the need to sound off, as if their opinions are somehow of benefit to mankind. Couldn’t they just take a walk among their much-loved hamas brethren? Please?

  38. I hate Middle East political culture. There are no good parties or leaders there. And now things are more democratic there, the top-dogs will tend to reflect the grass roots. The driving forces are all addicted to identity politics and hate crime.

    This discussion is just like a million other discussions about the subject, revolving endlessly around the same talking-points and stumblin-blocks. No commentator or policy maker ever admits that most things they have thought or said about the matter has been mostly wrong or irrelevant. Oh no, that would mean that all the money and time invested in the subject should be written off. Heaven forbid!

    No one ever admits that the main lesson of ME history is that people never forget their history and consequently never learn from it. Learning means deleting rubbish and filtering out white noise. Mark Twain’s epistemological principles are very useful to understanding the subject:

    It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.

    This is because ME political culture has evolved, over thousands of years, to confound the growth of a rational culture and modern nation states. The concepts of zealotry and jihad and assassin come from this region. Funny that, eh? So all your rational modernism is like water off a ducks back to these people.

    Whose brilliant idea was it that we could influence their polity or that they should modify our identity? Ha, Ha, Ha [sound of side-splitting laughter trailing off into the distance.]

    The thing is, the more democratic those jurisdictions become the more sectarian the parties and leaders get. And the more money and information they get seems to just empower the psychos.

    We should not poke our nose into their horrible business over there. And we should not invite their troublemakers over here.

    A plague on all their houses.

  39. Jack Strocchi seems to forget that Great Power intervention in the Middle East over many years is largely responsible for the disastrous state it’s in. To throw up his hands and say “ain’t the Middle Easterners all awful” is massively unbalanced and one-eyed. Now, Great Powers like the USA have become as much prisoners of their ME proteges as the proteges are of the Powers, broadening local frictions into worldwide conflicts.

    Mearsheimer and Walt noted the similarity between this mutual capture of the US and Israel with the earlier episode of the US and the Kuomintang. I’m sure other examples could be quoted.

  40. The scale of the worldwide damage done by the mutual capture of Great Power patrons and clients in the ME is partially indicated in this extract from The Guardian (dated 22/7/06)

    “With Britain now firmly in the US camp even on the Middle East conflict, the G8, the EU and the UN security council are still not calling for a ceasefire. This international decision to sanction such atrocities is the most troubling dimension of the current war. To make this refusal to rein in Israel more palatable, Tony Blair and Annan have proposed instead an international force for southern Lebanon. It fooled no one: the force will take weeks to put in place.

    Complicity in a war with such a high civilian toll is unprecedented in this era. It is particularly odious because all these leaders had, at last September’s extraordinary UN summit, solemnly hailed as a historic milestone the declaration on the “responsibility to protect” civilians during conflict, labelling this protection as one of the most urgent global priorities.

    The world’s carefully constructed international system for maintaining peace and security, built around the UN charter, is now on its last legs. It tackles crimes by the weak but is mute and unresponsive in the face of lawless behaviour by the powerful.”

  41. Jack and Steve at the Pub with such superficial and selective analysis it isn’t hard to see with that sort of mindset why many Serbians still think their war criminals are hero’s.

    I put it down to an inability to see both sides of the picture and selection bias which gives a asymmetric rationalized morality that is no better than any other cognitive/cultural bias.

    To JQ Romance of the Gun in the ME, would it be any surprise in a region where they have gone from one occupying power to another, the play things of power politics of major powers masquerading their self interests as morality that when given the choice of either occupation or oppression or imprisonment of thousands of their fellow country that they choose violence? Go figure.

    When the sole remaining super power continues this self serving power politics, rationalizes abusing human rights for its own gains and give unconditional support to their ally allowing them to do the same, but holding the other side to higher standards of moral behaviour it goes far beyond hypocrisy and is quite sickening.

    Gordon the writing was on the wall when you had the US apologists defending the renditions and torture if they could argue for that they could justify anything.

  42. gordon Says: July 22nd, 2006 at 11:24 am

    Jack Strocchi seems to forget that Great Power intervention in the Middle East over many years is largely responsible for the disastrous state it’s in. To throw up his hands and say “ain’t the Middle Easterners all awful� is massively unbalanced and one-eyed.

    No. Gordon, you should read what people write rather than go off half-cocked with a silly accusation like that. I have said that there is plenty of blame to go around, both at the sub-national and super-national levels of organisation. Here is what I said July 20th, 2006 at 8:55 pm, refutational bits with emphasis added:

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    I think that Pr Q should add that the causes of ME violence are both super-national and sub-national. Violence is chronic in the ME because this region has dysfunctional cultures and weak national polities, problems that go back hundreds of years. It is also chronic because great powers have been drawn to the region in search of strategic assets, not the least of which is oil.

    The ME harbours three incitements to Arab riot: a tribalistic and sectarian political culture, an irritating Jewish state and the bulk of super-power energy supplies. Because (sub-nationalist) tribalistic Islamic Arabs seem incapable of forming stable and civil nation states their peoples seem attracted to sectarian Churches.

    THis makes their political authorities weak and unruly. The super-powers are thus willing and able to be drawn into the region, for reasons of fear (of hostile powers getting oil control) and greed (for themselves to get same).

    But the fundamental cause of the problem is Islamic Arabic inability to properly form civil nation states: the key foundation of political Enlightenment.

    Still, they are all bad. The attitude of other nation states should be steady disengagement. Any intervention into the area should be UN-backed and led, and with the consent of contending parties. If none is forthcoming then we should step back give war a chance. Let em duke it out since it is unwise to get involved in a domestic. The worst man is going to win anyway so we may as well get it over with now.

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